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Parshas Vayishlach, 5768 Appeasement? "My
good friends, for the second time in our history, a British Prime Minister has
returned from Germany bringing peace with honor. (British P.M. Neville Chamberlain upon his
return from his meeting with Hitler y”s.) _____________________________ There is no question that as history is
repeating, the question of war vs. appeasement has returned-perhaps it really
never left. As Observant Jews we take comfort in the
fact that when we have doubts we can look to the Torah for answers. However, as
this week’s Parshah/portion demonstrates, both of these conflicting routes are
taken in short distant of the other: Rashi (9-10th century) 33:4, in
describing Yaakov/Jacob trying to find favor in the eyes of his brother Eisav/Esau,
uses an old French word “אפיזמענט”/”apaisement
(I trust some are not surprised that it is a French word), whereas Shimon
and Levi (chapter 34) not only flatly reject a treaty with Shechem but
obliterate his city. So, who was right, which path is more advantageous, war or
appeasement? How could it be that Yaakov and the Shevatim/Tribes chose two
differing paths[1]
in the span of a few weeks? I believe the answer to the above is hidden within what is
perhaps the most famed Rashi or Midrash (Commentary
written by the Rabbis of the Talmud which included both personal teachings and
Oral Torah truths) in all of Chumash/Five Books of Moses; הלכה
היא, עשו שונא
יעקב-it
is a matter of “law”: Esau (throughout history) despises Jacob. And,
although many discuss this tenet, few, if any, make mention of the oddity of where
the Rabbis and Rashi chose to transmit this revelation: not when we see
the fright of Yaakov; nor when Eliphaz (Eisav’s son) strips him bare; not
even, really, when they now confront each other. Instead it is a comment on the word “they embraced”
(33:4) that is chosen as the apropos moment to let us in on this teaching. Why?
Would it not appear that Jacob’s embrace is, if anything, the antithesis of
that very rule and the importance to act on it? Ah, but this
is the secret. Sure, we must be pragmatic, and, there are times that are
ripe for pacification, but there is one qualifying rule: you must know
your enemy and who you are dealing with. If we should ever delude
ourselves into having a dialogue with viscous foes based on the false premise
that they are not all that bad, then we doom ourselves in that said
process. However, as demonstrated through Yaakov, if at even the climax of
appeasement we are aware of with whom we are sitting down at the table, then
and only then can we even consider appeasement. “They embraced”, yet Jacob
was consciously aware, even then, that he was reviled, never allowing his
emotions and feelings of brotherly love delude him. That was the danger with Shechem; he came like a lamb,
asserting to want only alliance and camaraderie, only to then go back home and
continue violating their sister. The Shevatim would not be fooled. Eisav, as
duplicitous as he was, never hid his feelings toward Yaakov (indeed, that is why
Yaakov originally fled) and what his intentions always were. Yaakov therefore
never fell victim to deceiving himself from seeing the obvious. R. Menachem
Mendel of Kotzk (d. 1859) would demand but one thing from his students, Truth,
“Peace without truth”, he would say, “is not peace”. While the peace he
was speaking of was not geopolitical, the force and simplicity of his point is,
sadly, lacking in today’s mindset. Iran. What do we do? Only G-d knows. However, what we can
be sure of is that if the Baker-Hamilton report-and others like it- has an
underlying temperament of delusion and dilution of the enemy, then that
prospect, through that agent, must be abandoned. In our personal lives as well, we can not expect to reach
any great heights if we do not first admit what our true issues are. If we do
not first assess our inclinations we can not begin to triumph over them.
Too often we mistakenly begin by underestimating the strength of temptation and
in turn fail to vanquish it. I recall, about 6 months ago, our old buddy and perennial
“contributor” to our Drashos, A.J. Jakobs (Esquire magazine editor and
author of the books “Know It All” and the forthcoming “The Year of Living
Biblically”), embarked on a project where here would go a certain number of
days without uttering a lie. “Yes, it does look like you
gained weight”, “Indeed, I did get your messages, but I still did not return
the calls because I do not like you that much” and so on. While it was an intriguing experiment (I suppose), I more
accurate (truthful?) moniker would have been going without holding
thoughts back. Honesty however, the rare variety, is truthful and
frank evaluation of self and others: I am going
bald; he is smarter than I; I am jealous[2]
etc. It is to depart from preconception and bias and have the courage to see
things as they really are, warts and all, a painful yet rewarding process. As the government of Israel begins to embark on new talks
with her neighbor(s) this week, while we must not have illusions about the
reality of these talks-whether we approve of them or not- we must demand
this; at the very least, let not the exhaustion of fighting, the yearning for
peace nor the hope for acceptance cloud their minds and hearts from an honest
evaluation of all the participants involved, their motives and trustworthiness. And, most of all, we shall not forget the one other preparation
which Jacob had made in anticipation for his meeting with the enemy- Prayer. [1] The Meforshim/commentators generally explain Yaakov’s concern with the actions of Shimon and Levi (34:30), not with the mass execution per se, nor with the course they opted for, but in the way it was executed. [2] On this last example, see Drashah for Parshas Vayaitzay, 5768.
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